God’s covenant faithfulness is our measure, our norm. The faithful love of Christ models the Christian man’s marriage covenant. Jesus does not love the church because it is pure and spotless – He purifies the church in order to make it spotless. Just so, godly husbands love their wives despite their wives’ blemishes, not until they get blemishes. Thus we do not size up our wives each week to decide if we will love them a while longer. The idea of ever-fresh decisions, even decisions to stay faithful, is naïve.

Dan Doriani (b. 1953), Theologe, Professor und Pastor

Related Bible passage: EPH.5.25

Topics: Relationships & Family, Grace & Redemption, Discipleship

Occasions: Wedding & Marriage, For Reflection

Dan Doriani

Daniel M. „Dan“ Doriani (* 1953) ist ein US-amerikanischer evangelikal-reformierter Theologe, Pastor und langjähriger Professor am Covenant Theological Seminary in St. Louis. Bekanntheit erlangte er durch seine Arbeiten zur biblischen Hermeneutik, Predigtlehre und Berufsethik sowie als Autor und Mitherausgeber der Auslegungsreihe „Reformed Expository Commentary“. Bibellesern vermitteln seine Schriften eine fundierte reformierte Schriftauslegung, die theologische Exegese mit konkreter ethischer Anwendung für den Lebens- und Berufsalltag verbindet.

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